Swooping your Japanese sugar baby off of her feet on a first date can be a notoriously difficult task, especially if you are new to the world of sugar dating in Japan. So, for all the newbies here we have put together this guide to teach and inform you on some of the vital things you need to keep in mind before that first important day!
Six Golden Rules
If you want to sweep sugar babies off of their feet on first dates, then you just have to follow six simple steps:
Keep the Conversation Flowing
Conversation is a vital part of any sugar relationship and your prospective sugar baby will be looking to make sure that the two of you could get on long term. Before you go on your date, we would advise that you try to think of different topics that the two of you could talk about.
By doing this, you will be able to make sure that conversation flows easily and freely between the two of you without you both struggling to work out what you should talk about. There is nothing worse than awkward silences on sugar dates. Try to remember that most Japanese sugar babies are used to dating men who know how to be charming. Naturally, this would be a plus.
Your potential Japanese sugar baby may also ask you about your interests and try to create conversation about things that you like. Don’t be afraid of talking a lot about your own interests, as most sugar babies are attentive listeners.
You should also aim to converse with your sugar baby in a way that shows that you would be an attentive sugar daddy. Simple questions like “How are you?” and “Can I get you anything?” are often enough to show your potential sugar baby that you really are attentive.
Try to Pay Attention
It is one thing to talk about an array of different things on your dates, but it’s another to make sure that you actually remember the things that your sugar baby is talking about. If you can repeat some of those things back to your sugar baby, then that is bound to catch her attention. If you can impress her in this way, then that could be enough to create a lasting relationship.
Don’t be the Worst Type of Sugar Daddy
This one should be a given, but if you are unfamiliar with the world of sugar dating then you might not know what we mean. Simply put, in most cases you should never immediately make any sexual advances towards your potential Japanese sugar baby.
Whether or not sexual relations could potentially be a part of your relationship is something that should be discussed on the first date, but not straight away. Try to make sure that your sugar baby is comfortable and that some conversation is flowing freely before you even think about discussing this topic and other similar topics, like money.
On the other hand, if you are on a date with a sugar baby who immediately talks about money, then you should be tentative. Naturally, you will both need to discuss things like money at some point, but this should never be straight away.
Dress to Impress
Your potential Japanese sugar baby isn’t the only one who should be dressing to impress on your first date! Sugar babies like to know that their sugar babies are capable of looking after them. If your sugar baby has gone on quite a few different dates, then she will probably be able to read your outfit like an open book.
If possible, first think about what kind of area you will go for your first date. Pick a style that would best suit the situation. If you don’t know much about the area then at least make sure you have a smart shirt, clean shoes. Don’t forget to always shave or clean up your stubble!
Don’t Let Your Sugar Baby Pay!
If you try to make your sugar baby pay for something, then you are going to do the opposite of swooning her. Sugar relationships revolve around you paying for things. You have to be able to meet the needs of your sugar baby.
What these needs actually are should be discussed at some point on the first date, but never straight away. Make sure that you listen to some of the things that your sugar baby says in conversation. If it sounds like she needs money, or textbooks, then you should offer her them. Show her that you can look after her and you will have her attention.
Be Honest with your Sugar Baby
We know so many sugar relationships that have ended quickly because honesty became an issue. Because of this, we would recommend that you are honest from square one. If you don’t like travelling, then tell your sugar baby that. If you would prefer to give your sugar baby money rather than gifts, then tell her that. She will really appreciate your honesty.
You might not think that honesty should be an important factor in a sugar relationship, but it really is. You have to speak the truth at all times, otherwise, you will risk making your sugar baby insecure. This could cause a lot of problems and end your relationship altogether.
Don’t mention previously lying to sugar babies on your first date. Don’t mention being dishonest at all. Start your relationship as you mean to go on and show your sugar baby that you are an honest and worthwhile sugar partner.
As you can see, there are plenty of different ways in which you can swoop your sugar baby off of her feet. But, none of them represent the traditional sense of swooping someone off of her feet. Most sugar babies will make it clear that there are no sleepovers on the first date or until terms have been agreed. Sugar babies are looking for a lifestyle and you have to show them that you can provide that.